(Affection, Creation, Freedom, Identity, Idleness, Participation, Protection, Subsistence, Understanding)
It struck a cord with me this week as I have really felt that busy-ness. And as I read the post I thought about my own life and how I do actually often feel if I am not busy I am not contributing in some sub-conscious way. I have always got a list of things that need to be done, which I work on and add to all the time and just taking time to "pick more daisies" has been rare recently.
There is always another side of it and that is busy-ness without actually achieving much. We all know someone who always appears to be busy but achieves nothing. Maybe you put yourself in that category.
Surely there is a happy medium where you are able to meet the 9 fundamentals of human needs including idleness without being run off you feet being "busy".
If I Had My Life Over - I'd Pick More Daisies
by Nadine Stair
If I had my life to live over, I'd dare to make more mistakes next time. I'd relax, I would limber up. I would be sillier than I have been this trip. I would take fewer things seriously. I would take more chances. I would climb more mountains and swim more rivers. I would eat more ice cream and less beans. I would perhaps have more actual troubles, but I'd have fewer imaginary ones.
You see, I'm one of those people who lived sensibly and sanely, hour after hour, day after day. Oh, I've had my moments, and if I had to do it over again, I'd have more of them. In fact, I'd try to have nothing else. Just moments, one after another, instead of living so many years ahead of each day. I've been one of those persons who never goes anywhere without a thermometer, a hot water bottle, a raincoat and a parachute. If I had to do it again, I would travel lighter than I have.
If I had my life to live over, I would start barefoot earlier in the spring and stay that way later in the fall. I would go to more dances. I would ride more merry-go-rounds. I would pick more daisies.
My Mum always liked this poem and I know that if she had known she was going to die at the young age of 63 she would have adhered to it more too. She spent a lot of time in her life saying "When I retire............". She didn't get that opportunity. Don;t let that be you.
Weekly challenge - to build idleness into your daily life. Remember this is a fundamental human need. Idleness for you may be different from what it is for me - it could be sitting and watching telly, it could be having coffee with friends, it could be sitting in the sun dozing and dreaming. Don't save idleness and creativity for when you have more time or when you retire.
I think the blog is right - you don't have to be scheduled every minute of every day to be happy, fulfilled and a contributor to society. I love the reminder about kids having unscheduled playtime too.
Of course if you thrive on being busy and it doesn't cause stress to you or impact on family, friends and other aspects of life then great! If it does, take a moment to work out how to improve the situation. Only you can take control of your own life.
Have a great weekend.
Kind Regards
Francesca








